Figure out two people commenting on a topic. you will definitely get varied opinions. The opinions will be based on how they view and judge things. Even if you take yourself as an example, you will find circumstances when you have to make a choice out of two. For example,You can choose to be in a good mood or be in a bad one. When you find yourself in a problem you can choose to be a victim or learn from it. You can also choose to be either part of the solution or part of the problem, when a friend comes to you complaining, to handle her you can accept her complaint or point out the positive side of life. The fact is that We cannot change our past or rather the way other people act, change in this case becomes inevitable, however you only need to play around your attitude in the following ways if you are to relieve yourself from being torn between choices.
Positivity,you can choose to frown or smile,hate or love, build or destroy or when life gives you lemon, you feel like quitting but depending on the mood you can resort to persevere and move on. Whatever you do always be positive because every choice you make has an end result.
Enthusiasm, they say that enthusiasm is the leaping lightening that cannot be stopped by the horse power of understanding. Try to get possession of your mind by engaging in a lively activity or an interesting pursuit. This may include devotional services that are so emotional. Something that will make you happy when you are down.
Determination, at times we are faced by disputes or a list of unanswered questions. We try so much to weigh each side but we feel insufficient,however we are required to give a conclusive or an authoritative decision after a careful reasoning. Only those who are determined can be able to draw the right conclusions.
Motivation, different people can have quite different motivators, for example, by acquiring more money, more recognition, time off from work, promotions, opportunities for learning, or opportunities for socializing and relationships. It is important to know what motivates you. Choices of wrong motivating factor can lead you to disarray.
Confidence, whatever you do, do it with a passion. Always be confident that you will succeed in your endeavors. Confidence breeds positive results. whatever you do, do it to the best of your ability.
Optimism, this sums it all up, it is a belief that a positive outcome is possible, it is generated through faith, you can keep the faith in you if you resort to trying each time you experience a downfall.
Furthermore make sure you remain dedicated to whatever endeavors you have, be happy with all that life bringeth forth while you adopt the character of a good listener.
BY CONRAD ONYANGO